PinnedCosas NuevasI’ve never met an international raccoon. I don’t know why the family of raccoons in Costa Rica waddling across the floor of the open-air restaurant enchanted me so much. I’ve been places! I’ve cuddled koalas in Australia, swam with sharks in South Africa, dodged rats in the alleys of Paris…Personal Development12 min readPersonal Development12 min read
Jun 12Shift the CriteriaEvery Thursday morning, I chant in a room with about 30 other people while a yoga instructor plays a mini pipe organ. We chant words in a language none of us speak, and so our teacher hands out small slips of paper with chant translations so we can rest assured…Personal Development7 min readPersonal Development7 min read
Apr 19How to Win My VoteA warm breeze sashays through the basement of Sacred Heart Church, rustling stacks of paper ballots and kissing the sweaty foreheads of volunteers and voters. “Voters” is plural because, on April 4, 2023, there are precisely TWO of us in this room in the middle of the day. I like…Voting10 min readVoting10 min read
Mar 13Grown-Up HobbiesDo you ever feel boring? If you’re reading this, I’ll venture to guess you’re a hard worker. ELGL tends to attract ambitious, successful people. You are the type of person who is proud of your work and devoted to servant leadership. I have a hunch you’re also the type of…Life Lessons8 min readLife Lessons8 min read
Dec 6, 2022A Year of Giving UpSomething happened at the end of 2021. The specifics don’t matter at this point, but the gist of it was a “dream” I almost got, had within reach, and then didn’t get. Everyone who knew about it consoled me. The weirdest part of all of it? I didn’t care. All…Books11 min readBooks11 min read
Jun 13, 2022The Importance of Being Earnest“The only place you can find love in Memphis is at the gentlemen’s club — at least then you know what you’re paying for, and they won’t steal your car.” –my Uber driver, Earnest. June 2022. CW: Uvalde, mental health struggles, and secondhand curse words. Getting on a plane is…Mental Health8 min readMental Health8 min read
May 18, 2022Making Sense of a Sad WorldSomething is sitting in the pit of my stomach. Something in my heart that isn’t entirely hardened by tragedies and violence is stirring. At first, I read the news out of Buffalo with the eye of an American who is used to mass shootings. I moved on through my day…Racism4 min readRacism4 min read
Apr 14, 2022Sit, Stay, LeadFor most of my life, the idea of being a “dog person” was foreign to me. In my house growing up, our dogs were an afterthought. They were small and lived mostly in the backyard. I assume someone fed them, but I don’t recall who. I know they were loved…Leadership7 min readLeadership7 min read
Mar 29, 2022You Did ThatSlack is down this morning, as is Peloton. So now, I have a legitimate excuse not to get on the bike with this extra time I have on my hands. I left my bullet points for a presentation I had to do in a Slack message, and just had to…Work Life Balance5 min readWork Life Balance5 min read
Mar 11, 2022All the Single LadiesThe bright white light of the giant video screen bounced off roughly 40 similarly-balding heads, like three dozen eggs lined up waiting to hatch. It is almost the Q&A portion of the young scholar’s research and she is prepared for any question about the methodology of her modeling approach, the…Women5 min readWomen5 min read